tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860922052330247622.post7742937021354791507..comments2023-05-11T09:07:41.100-05:00Comments on The White House: The Hardest ThingKelli Whitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10228967086974062692noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860922052330247622.post-86154481407625197442011-11-10T08:37:47.388-06:002011-11-10T08:37:47.388-06:00Kelli,
We've never met personally, but we are...Kelli,<br /><br />We've never met personally, but we are sisters in God. Your husband works with my sister-in-law, and she has been keeping me updated on you and Finley. I too, am the mother of a stillborn daughter. Anna Catherine, my second child, was stillborn 3 years ago on March 31st, 2008. <br /><br />Reading your beautifully written blogs as you've traveled this journey, was such a blessing to me. I have prayed for you, cried with you, and openly wept for you. I prayed so hard that I wouldn't have to see another mother go through what I've been through. Monday morning, Oct. 31st, I got the email that broke my heart. My sister-in-law emailed to tell me Finley was an angel.<br /><br />Reading this blog was very difficult as I couldn't see it through my tears. Your words were like reading my own.<br /><br />It's been three years for me, but the wounds are still very fresh. Please know you have someone you can talk to when you are ready. I would love to sit down and meet you and talk to you sometime. I rejoice today knowing that my Anna Catherine, has a new friend to play with in Heaven...Sweet Miss Finley! The angels are dancing! <br /><br />You and your family will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers! <br /><br />In Him,<br />Crystal NicholsCrystalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16106701287794625956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860922052330247622.post-49782914450756435832011-11-05T20:56:11.618-05:002011-11-05T20:56:11.618-05:00Kelli, we are praying for you and your family. You...Kelli, we are praying for you and your family. You have such an incredible support system. You have such a wonderful mom and dad who love you so much. I know you and Daniel are devastated. Finley will always be a part of your lives and I pray that you will receive God's perfect peace in days to come.<br /><br />Love,<br />Abbie Huberabbie hubernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860922052330247622.post-72257221335668310372011-11-04T19:37:25.017-05:002011-11-04T19:37:25.017-05:00Kelli - I do not know you personally but I am frie...Kelli - I do not know you personally but I am friends with your aunt. Even though you are feeling incredibly weak right now, you are TRULY the strongest person!!!! God Bless you, Daniel, Eli and Finley.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860922052330247622.post-40306094504165522202011-11-04T00:45:18.483-05:002011-11-04T00:45:18.483-05:00As always, continued prayers for you and your fami...As always, continued prayers for you and your family, sweet Kelli. We will not forget your beautiful Finley. She is waiting for you in heaven. May God carry you through until you can see her beautiful face again. <3DaLynnRmc.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13347803928060188671noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860922052330247622.post-86746273480661263952011-11-02T18:05:05.273-05:002011-11-02T18:05:05.273-05:00I'm in tears. Leaving the hospital was the ha...I'm in tears. Leaving the hospital was the hardest part for me too. Going through all that and having nothing to show the world for it but a set of hand prints in clay and a couple pictures. I'm so very sorry that you have to go through this. Her hand was so perfect, and I'm sure the rest of her was beautiful too. I love Finley's name. Many many many tearful hugs to you. I promise that you will go from just surviving to one day figuring out how to live again, but that Finley will never leave you. My Cora hasn't and today marks 5 1/2 years exactly. Know that you're being prayed for as you learn how to go on without Finley.Brittaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09163482845611038936noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860922052330247622.post-83985727425357152042011-11-02T17:59:11.111-05:002011-11-02T17:59:11.111-05:00I dont know you, but I know how you feel. I buried...I dont know you, but I know how you feel. I buried my son Mason on June 23rd 2009.He had a birth defect and passed away and 22 weeks. I held him for only twenty mins and now have to wait the rest of my life to hold him again. be thankful everyday for the moments you had with her. You have a beautiful son to keep you going. I wish I could say it gets easier as time goes by, but it doesnt. I sobbed when I read your story. I wish you the best, you and your family. and now you have an angel looking down apon you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860922052330247622.post-1684594398833863992011-11-02T10:25:53.098-05:002011-11-02T10:25:53.098-05:00I believe in the sun even when it isn't shinin...I believe in the sun even when it isn't shining.<br />I believe in love even when I am alone.<br />I believe in God even when He is silent. <br />Thinking of you and saying a little prayer each day that the sun will come out for you soon.<br /><br />'This is the day the Lord has made, let us rejoice and be glad in it' --- Psalm 118:24a shining starnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860922052330247622.post-24142166346360865442011-11-02T08:31:20.541-05:002011-11-02T08:31:20.541-05:00I don't know you personally Kelli, but I have ...I don't know you personally Kelli, but I have been exactly where you are. I gave birth to a stillborn daughter (her name is Summer Kayce)Dec. 2000 at 26wks gestation. That was the worst day ever for me. I can tell you that over time you all will heal and that God does have a plan. He never gives you more than you can handle or that he will not help you through. I searched the web for answers, to try to understand why. The only thing that seen me through was my faith in God, talking about her,and I also found a support group on line for people who gave birth to stillborns. <br />I am so sorry for what you are going through.<br />I wished there were words I could say to ease your pain, but from past experience, there are no words, but only time!<br /><br />Since then, (16mo to be exact) I gave birth to twin boys, 4yrs later married my best friend (we've been married now for 5yrs) and this past Jan I delivered a beautiful baby girl at 30wks, Sara Grace is now 9mo. <br /><br />I will pray you daily. I will pray that God's healing hands are placed over you. I will pray that one day when God see's you are ready that you will enjoy a healthy pregnancy with a happy ending. Finley will never be forgotten and will always hold a special place in your heart!<br />God Bless,<br />TeriAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860922052330247622.post-90710724145491982522011-11-01T18:23:50.109-05:002011-11-01T18:23:50.109-05:00Praying constantly for you, Kelli.
Rest assured...Praying constantly for you, Kelli. <br /><br />Rest assured that Finley will never be forgotten. We all carry a little bit of her with us and our lives will forever be changed because of her impact. She was chosen by God to do mighty things in a very short time and I, for one, will always remember that.<br /><br />She is much loved.Diannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10363291255942721061noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860922052330247622.post-58963729350961533232011-11-01T16:45:48.948-05:002011-11-01T16:45:48.948-05:00Kelli, you are an amazing woman. Thank you so much...Kelli, you are an amazing woman. Thank you so much for sharing Finley with us as you were on this journey with her. Everytime you post or write about her we all come to love her and you even more. I hope you know you do not have to be strong right now and that we will all be strong for you. Just please know that God is holding Finley and will never let her go. Love to you all.Dora Baileyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05342221578835264307noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860922052330247622.post-91424324159756164662011-11-01T16:19:39.632-05:002011-11-01T16:19:39.632-05:00♥ i don't have the words - thank you so much f...♥ i don't have the words - thank you so much for sharing sweet Finley with us and your journey. Sending you love and praying for peace and comfort and healing. You are an amazing woman and mom with 2 amazing children, Finley will NEVER be fogotten. ♥Alethiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13575604295212612137noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860922052330247622.post-49377045928074734182011-11-01T15:50:20.802-05:002011-11-01T15:50:20.802-05:00Even in your deepest grief, Kelli, you write so el...Even in your deepest grief, Kelli, you write so eloquently and say things so profound. I have no words for you, becuase there are no words. But I am praying for you with every fiber of my being.Amynoreply@blogger.com